Monday, September 27, 2010

Birthday!

So I turned 22 this past Wednesday. Woo. I had a lovely dinner and movie night (and cake that Maryanne made!). And it was Homecoming weekend this past weekend so of course it really was just one big birthday bash for me. Friday night was the President's Ball which was pretty cool. And then Saturday I met up with Kristin and her family to go to the football game against Assumption College. It was a good game, we lost, but it was so close and we almost had it. Now we are 2-2. I might actually follow Fordham football this year, maybe. After the game I went over to Kristin's house where we exchanged birthday gifts (her birthday was on Sunday).

The 504 reunited! It was great, just like old times. We got ready together and had birthday cake! Then we went to see Rob's band 3WB perform at the Alphabet Lounge. They were great as per usual. After the show we went out around Manhattan with everyone. It was a great adventure and when the clock struck midnight I literally screamed HAPPY BIRTHDAY at Kristin. I think she enjoyed it. Here is 3WB rocking out!


And then Walsh 504 about to leave for the concert. One day we will all live together again in a sweet apartment in Manhattan. I wonder if I will still call us "Walsh 504" when we live in some random apartment 6D or what not.

What's Up Doc?

I've recently started watching Barbra Streisand films. Well apparently I used to watch (and LOVE them) when I was little, but I don't have any memories of that. So last night, Maryanne and I watched "What's Up Doc?" and it was quite fantastic. I am not usually a fan of comedies (I know I'm odd, right?) but this one was really entertaining. It made absolutely no sense at many times, and Howard/Steve (the lead male) became a completely different character at one point (though Maryanne believes this happened because he no longer had to deal with his horrible fiance, Eunice.)



Anyway, Barbra was amazing as per usual. As I was watching the movie I was getting upset that she hadn't sung anything yet, but she did end up singing part of a song at one point. It was lovely of course. Before "What's Up Doc?" I watched "Funny Girl" and I am currently playing the title track on repeat on my ipod (My brand new iPod which I have dubbed "Inman" (ten points to anyone who knows what that is a reference to) so obviously I loved "Funny Girl")

So next in my series of Barbra Streisand films is going to be "The Way We Were" which was suggested by my mother and was also mentioned in an episode of 90120 I was just watching. I bet it's going to be amazing, especially since it's a Barbra/Robert Redford rocking double time.

The 5 Year Plan

Like all college students I am not a fan of when people ask me what I am going to do after college. If someone actually knows what they want to do and has this so called "Five year plan" good for them. I hope it works out. But for the majority of us, we have no clue. The only major decision we have made thus far is what college we attended, and for some that decision turned out to be a giant flop or not that big of a decision anyway. As Zac Bissonnette says in his book "Debt-Free: U" college is really what you make of it. So in actuality, the big decision we made when we chose what school to attend was not a "big decision" rather the culmination of all the little things we did to make our school fit us was the more important decision and action. So what about the future? What about this "big decision" of what we are going to do for our career, where we want to live, and how we plan on getting our lives together? Not as big a decision as it seems. Okay, it is a big decision, it is a big part of who we are going to be, but really things change, companies go out of business, people get married and relocate. It's not an end all. It's just a job, and you can decide which one to pick and then you can decide to make it be what you want (to a certain extent). If the first job you get out of college has nothing to with want you want to do, it's okay. It's okay because once you know what you want and when you figure out how you can get there, it will happen. It'll happen because you got that first job and you hated it and you learned what you didn't want. Learning what you don't want is a huge factor in figuring out what you do want.

So. Five year plan? There is no answer for me. Most things are up in the air and that's okay (for now). One major decision I am currently being faced with is WHERE I want to live and work. But once again, if I decide to live in one place, it doesn't mean I am going to live there my entire life. I could move and work in California for five years and come back to the East coast where maybe my real career will be. But I don't know. Not knowing is pretty scary, but it's the situation most college students and recent graduates are in. It's okay. I am just going to relax and follow every lead that crosses my path and those that I seek out myself. That's all I've got, because as I've mentioned, I have no idea, but it's okay.